Who's My Biggest Hater?

You have goals and dreams for the future right? Places you want to visit, people you want to meet. You want to accomplish so many things in life. My guess is your list is like probably as big in size as you are! Wow, that is amazing and I am happy that you have all these ambitions in life. I am exited for you but wait, is there a problem? You really haven't started on your path to succeeding your plans yet. You say that one day you will be happy and proud of your accomplishments and the thought of that feels great, but you feel that isn't enough for your to start. Why is that? We begin to think about all the obstacles that can stop us. Some friends might not agree with ideas, might not believe that you can be good at what you love. You begin to absorb all the negative things so quickly and leave out the positive. We tend to always expect the worst of things and because of it we tend to stop moving.  We begin to feel stuck why isn't my life progressing when my goals and dreams are so great and I know I can accomplish them. You start to get angry and start looking for something to blame. You feel like people are hating on you. That they don't want you to succeed. That maybe because of them your dreams are taking a little longer to be accomplished. You start thinking why should I even try when people aren't going to like me, or be proud of me. Your mind begins to put all these thoughts in your head of why you should stop. Sometimes the most simplest itty bitty problem that can be so easily stopped, takes us like a hundred steps back.

Have you ever stopped to think who is your biggest hater? Have you ever thought that maybe it could be YOU?! We look so hard for places far and beyond to find an excuse to why it is we aren't moving forward. So take a few seconds and pause. Don't look back, forward, or besides you, but look with in you. Speak to yourself, it might sound crazy but let yourself know. The world might be harsh and throw some tomatoes at you from time to time but no one can stop you but you. Tell yourself to stop listening to negative influence, stop taking in bad criticism, stop allowing over all things from YOU to put you down! Of course there are some moments in which we need to take a breather and thats alright go ahead. I have gone thru this myself, recently actually. I thought why, why do I feel like everything is  against me, why am I feeling stuck with my own self. Is it because people are just some big haters and because of them my path to success gets blocked. Whats the deal? Then one brilliant night as I thought to myself, I found what I was looking for. It was me, I was my biggest hater. I was putting myself down for the simplest things. I would find ways to block the path towards success for my life, it was I. We could be the hardest critics towards ourselves and we shouldn't do that all the time. We should motivate ourselves!


I'm here to tell you STOP being your biggest hater! Be positive there will always be a solution to your doubt and problems. Don't find more problems for your problems, but find SOLUTIONS, everything will fall into place. I have been thru it, I'm still finding my way and I will not be the one stopping me. I will accomplish my goals! This is my short thought for today. Stop hating and start loving who you are and who you can become! I hope I was able to help and give motivation for you to keep moving forward. I know you will accomplish your goals
with greatness!


LOVE,

JayCreates xoxoxox


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