Who's My Biggest Hater?

You have goals and dreams for the future right? Places you want to visit, people you want to meet. You want to accomplish so many things in life. My guess is your list is like probably as big in size as you are! Wow, that is amazing and I am happy that you have all these ambitions in life. I am exited for you but wait, is there a problem? You really haven't started on your path to succeeding your plans yet. You say that one day you will be happy and proud of your accomplishments and the thought of that feels great, but you feel that isn't enough for your to start. Why is that? We begin to think about all the obstacles that can stop us. Some friends might not agree with ideas, might not believe that you can be good at what you love. You begin to absorb all the negative things so quickly and leave out the positive. We tend to always expect the worst of things and because of it we tend to stop moving.  We begin to feel stuck why isn't my life progressing when my goals and dreams are so great and I know I can accomplish them. You start to get angry and start looking for something to blame. You feel like people are hating on you. That they don't want you to succeed. That maybe because of them your dreams are taking a little longer to be accomplished. You start thinking why should I even try when people aren't going to like me, or be proud of me. Your mind begins to put all these thoughts in your head of why you should stop. Sometimes the most simplest itty bitty problem that can be so easily stopped, takes us like a hundred steps back.

Have you ever stopped to think who is your biggest hater? Have you ever thought that maybe it could be YOU?! We look so hard for places far and beyond to find an excuse to why it is we aren't moving forward. So take a few seconds and pause. Don't look back, forward, or besides you, but look with in you. Speak to yourself, it might sound crazy but let yourself know. The world might be harsh and throw some tomatoes at you from time to time but no one can stop you but you. Tell yourself to stop listening to negative influence, stop taking in bad criticism, stop allowing over all things from YOU to put you down! Of course there are some moments in which we need to take a breather and thats alright go ahead. I have gone thru this myself, recently actually. I thought why, why do I feel like everything is  against me, why am I feeling stuck with my own self. Is it because people are just some big haters and because of them my path to success gets blocked. Whats the deal? Then one brilliant night as I thought to myself, I found what I was looking for. It was me, I was my biggest hater. I was putting myself down for the simplest things. I would find ways to block the path towards success for my life, it was I. We could be the hardest critics towards ourselves and we shouldn't do that all the time. We should motivate ourselves!


I'm here to tell you STOP being your biggest hater! Be positive there will always be a solution to your doubt and problems. Don't find more problems for your problems, but find SOLUTIONS, everything will fall into place. I have been thru it, I'm still finding my way and I will not be the one stopping me. I will accomplish my goals! This is my short thought for today. Stop hating and start loving who you are and who you can become! I hope I was able to help and give motivation for you to keep moving forward. I know you will accomplish your goals
with greatness!


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JayCreates xoxoxox


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Am I Worth It?

       

 Growing up in the "hood" as we say, I don't know where your "hood" might be but as for me it's South Central Los Angeles. I grew up in an environment where education and purpose is not so important. Can anyone relate?  We see our lives as just being able to get by in the world. Our education system can be so caught up focusing on the wrong things. They don't worry about our education and potential, they worry more about discipline they just want to make sure we do not look gang affiliated or sell drugs on campus. We are not taught how great and important education is, how much potential we have to make a change for our community and what a positive influence we can be to those that will come after us (the younger ones).  For example in 11th grade I had an English teacher for math class! Like what? Sometimes the teacher wouldn't even know the answers to some of the problems. I'm pretty bad at math myself so that was no help for me what so ever. Getting back to the point, we grow up in this environment that gives us no support, with the idea of Just getting by in life is ok.

         When it was time for senior year I had no plans on going to college. I had a mentality like maybe most students around me had. I'm going to graduate, find myself an "office job", get married young have kids and there my life is set. NO No no wrong mentality completely! I didn't think I was worth it. Was I worth moving on up to greater things and going after my dreams?  Should I just settle with what I'm comfortable with, Just good enough? I didn't think I was smart enough to go to a college and pursue my dreams. I was wrong, me being the person that I am I had to seek something other than what was just good enough. I had the whole world to experience and I wasn't going to just stay sitting on my comfortable couch. I was going to go beyond my comfort zone. I didn't want to be the average. I do not think any one should be the average I believe that everyone has the potential to do great positive things, we are all here for a purpose. The "COMFORTABLE" zone is the problem. Why take risks and step out my "I'm doing ok, life". Not that its a bad thing if your okay with it then go ahead do yo thang. Maybe, why not step into "I'm doing great, life, or I've had amazing experiences, life, I lived up my dreams, life"! Maybe its not about going to college, maybe you have a business plan you want to start, maybe you want to start a charity, maybe you want to be an artist. It might take some hard work and dedication and maybe your not use to it, but trust me I understand, hardwork and dedication were not in my vocabulary before. I feel you completely! That does not mean that inside of you isn't a will that is beyond greater than what you know.

         Am I worth it? The answer is YES YOU ARE! You were brought into this world to squeeze the life out of it, take advantage of every possibility it is never to late to start over. Take risks if it doesn't work then you will just be back at where you started from, ready to do something new. You don't want to live a life of "What If". I'm still finding myself and there is so many things in life I want to do still. I am taking it one step at a time, take a chance. You are worth it! I hope this little thought of mind may help you in any way, even if just to give you a little push to keep moving forward. I am honored to do so!

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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015

JayCreates xoxo
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